Self improvement is very hard. It requires consistency and perserverance; to say the least. Most of all it requires one to remember how to "act". In essence, we are all actors on the world stage. Things that I must remember to do (behavior) are:
1. Make Eye Contact with anyone I come in contact with; whether it is a cashier, someone I am seeking information from, or an acquaintance. I must remember to ALWAYS make eye contact and hold it while speaking and listening. Eye contact shows the other person that you are not afraid or timid, and that you are confident. When two people meet, immediately, there is a struggle that takes place subconsciously. At first it may seem hard to do. It may seem to you that the other person notices that you are "staring at them". If you want power, you must "assume it" and people will "give it to you".
2. Assume Power and people WILL give it to you. I must always remember to behave as if I am a man of power, a king, agent 007, etc. I image that I am a man of wealth, I move slowly with calculation. When I act and believe that I am, I become that. Change yourself and your reality will change with it. Watch your body language, your way of thinking, your tone of voice, and the last three words you say; it should be of a low vocal tone.
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